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Personal Development Training – What’s In Identity Shifting For You?

Here’s a question for you… What’s in identity shifting for you? The answer is EVERYTHING!

Before I get into the benefit of real Identity Shifting™ for you , let me tell you a story and see if you can relate…

There once was a child just like you, born with no clothes. From there the child’s story differs from yours unless when you were 3 weeks old your father picked you up, threw you across the room and as you slide down the wall, he walked out of the house to never return again.

Then you moved with your mom and brother across 4 states to the middle of Tennessee before you had lived a month and a half. Then when the child was 3 years old your mom picks you up from the babysitters and takes you on a long ride and before the evening is over you wind up in a strange place with a lot of strangers, sleeping in a room with 15 other 3-6 years, with your mom nowhere in site. This is your introduction to orphan life.

From the age of 3 through high school you grow up in two different orphanages. There is no national group to make things easier for you.  When you are eighteen you have to leave the orphanage and you are on your own. There is no National Association of Orphan People to get you any special treatment or breaks for college or job or business and you have no family to rely on. No kinfolk that you know of to co-sign a loan for a car or a business.

The only thing you have going for you is you know you are an orphan but it didn’t mean anything good or bad to you. It didn’t mean anyone owed you anything or that others had to treat you special. It meant other people had two parents and you grew up in an orphanage, nothing more, nothing less.

You thought people either liked you or didn’t, not based on your identity as an orphan but by how you and they interacted and what they thought of how you treated them. 

Now I know other people who grew up different with more advantages and opportunities that this child did and for some reason when things didn’t go their way instead of looking at what they could do differently to change the situation or learn how to improve their position they felt is was because of their age, or race or gender or religion.

There are only two basic things that get me about that…

  1. it makes you a helpless victim, with no ability to change anything because those things are out of your control (except your religion) and
  2.  it gives you the identity of someone who is disadvantaged and requires special treatment and so far it seems, most who get special treatment want more and more and more.

From my background in the spiritual awareness and personal development field, all these challenges can be traced to the individual’s self-worth, which is made up of how you see yourself (self-image) and what you say to themselves about how you see yourself (self-esteem).

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Oneness and Duality |The Highest Level of Spiritual Freedom

What is really important is the core condition of recognizing ourselves and others as human beings with developmental needs and developmental constructs, the understanding of which is paramount to enabling a real understanding of the human development processes and the requirements necessary in order to work towards living a contented and fulfilled existence for ourselves, and for engaging meaningfully with others working towards the same. If you have a busy schedule and do not have the time to attend these seminars, try doing a Google search. Which is to name but a few, and some of which will mean more to one person than to another

Oneness and Duality |The Highest Level of Spiritual Freedom

I was going to call this the highest level of emotional freedom but then I realized that Oneness and Duality “is” the highest level of Spiritual Freedom. As I wrote the three levels of emotional freedom I thought the third level or stage,“generative emotional freedom” was the highest, and yet I now know I was wrong. It is the combination of Oneness and Duality that is the key.

While having generative emotional freedom is fantastic in that it gives your freedom from what you don’t want and freedom to what you do want there is a higher level (stage) still. It is the level where one can choose to either experience Oneness and Duality or either one separately.

I realize this requires the ability to experience “Oneness” which is a life long goal of many. The desire to let go of the “self” suggest you consider looking for more info on Oneness and Duality.

I just wanted to state my position for clarity (probably more for myself). I do not prefer Oneness over Duality nor do I prefer Oneness and/or Duality. One is not more valuable than the other. One is not better than the other. Both have their purpose and both are perfect, for both are the same thing. It all depends on the perspective/position/POV at the time.

The question that arises for me is – how do I use either based on the experience I choose to have?

Experience requires the five senses, which require separation, which require time and space (even though we can take the charge out of them with many of the Spiritual Technology’s ). Things like meditation and some of the mind sciences have demonstrated it does not have to require judgment. It could use observation instead. (The term detachment comes to mind.)

The ability (flexibility) to experience Oneness and Duality and/or Oneness or Duality at will, allows one the same advantages of the universe.

The “need to” or “have to” experience one or the other is a part of Duality because they are the same.

Many times we forget the mind and the ego just as emotions and body feelings (including identity, values, beliefs, behaviors) are neither good or bad they are simply tools one uses in our experiment, I mean experience, I mean our experiment of experience.

We can use the tools well or not so well but still, they are only tools. The Spiritual Technology tools are some of the most powerful I have found to begin the process of experiencing Oneness and then to be able to work with Oneness and Duality that I have found.

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Anxiety Attack Symptoms or The Way To Happiness

All is experienced as painful, even any happy times, and can’t feel love for family or show or feel real grief. People with acute anxiety disorder may have to be restrained, or hospitalized for their own safety or that of the community. And can gradually increase to a chronic state. In this case they would have been denied mother, as a baby, but also had attentions not of their satisfaction, as a surrogate mother, or nurse. This is were help for these conditions begins

Or how do we go the opposite way to happiness?

This works for some people with this symptom and can probably work for you too. You can also get a heating pad and put it on your neck. It’s normal to feel anxious when facing something difficult or dangerous, and mild anxiety can be a positive and useful experience. It’s also important to recognize that people who’ve developed posttraumatic stress disorder often have other types of problems, including substance abuse and other anxiety and mood disorders. Keeping your mind busy really can be beneficial in dealing with anxiety

When you first experience anxiety your doctor must be able to diagnose your complaint. Anxiety disorders are not uncontrollable or random. Medication can help to reduce anxiety disorder symptoms for some people, but it should never be considered a cure, nor should it be necessary for healthy living

Self-worth and how we perceive ourselves, determine the level of happiness we have.

Allowing yourself to be face to face with your lack of a sense of self, and self-identity may mean that you dont know how to feed yourself with emotionally nourishing food. Everything became a chore and he resented having to do things he used to do. However, the presence of at least 4 of the above symptoms strongly suggests that a person has a more serious panic disorder

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